Hi …..
I m here again bringing some interesting material for u ….
today I m gonna write about a boy who did his schooling from a Saraswati Vidhya Mandir,
u must be thinking why I m treating visdhya mandir as a special school,
hey I don’t mean vidhya mandir r for special Childs J but when a student completes his study from vidhya mandir he surely becomes special (hahaha) due to some of special vidhya mandir rules, regulations.
In Vidhya Mandir everything was perfect if I m talking about study, discipline, moralities, cultural knowledge, n social activities. But when question comes about interaction wid girls it becomes a blunder even thinking about that.My vidhya mandir was a Co-ed , it was only so called co-education but there nothing like this, there boys never used to talk to girls even on study topics nd same was wid girls.
It’s not so there were some rules defined like that but these rules were created by environment itself , if u talk to girl u had to call them “Behan” and Girl had to call the boys as “Bhaiya”, It was not a choice but our compulsion. nd being a farsighted guy at that time most of among us were not ready to take responsibilities of all those so-called Behans..…….
(Here I m not commenting on principles of vidhya mandir becoz I m also a Big fan of vidhya mandir environment but I m simply telling u truth n its effects.)
So the Boy like me who passed his growing age from 6th to 12th in vidhya mandir was one of victim of this, Frankly saying in my 7 years of schooling I never talk to a girl even for 7 minutes. nd it was not only me even all of my friend were in same situation.But its also true dat at that time even we nvr had wished bout that we had become a part of it nd were very happy in own life.
So after completing my schooling from such a environment I went to college.
It was my first year. Environment in college was just opposite to vidhya mandir.
No tight study shedule, no tight discipline, No morality, and no Ban wid talking to girls(nd more also….. )
I can remember my first day in college, we were in our electronics lab when a senior batch girl called me as “hey black shirt“,I went to her she was going to take my ragging nd I was totally new to this. She was luking towards my eyes so I started looking towards ground feeling some shy n she thought as this was a respect to her (hahahahha),
she was asking sm questions nd my words were not coming out even I knew d answers, she thought dat I m scared from ragging ,so told me to feel easy nd did not ask any question more and then she did handshake wid me, she told her name and said me to go. It was like a totally diff experience to me.
Just after that teacher came in class and lecture begins I remember during the whole time of lecture I was lost in thinking about my dumb conversation wid senior girl. i was again n again luking towards my hand nd I really don’t knw why ? (hahahaha)
Honestly saying on that day perhaps i was happy because I was ragged by a senior GIRL (hahaha) nd perhaps I wanted to be ragged again (hahahaha)
How stupid and innocent a vidhya madnir student can be……
6 years hv been past to dis to this nd time has been changed now for me but whenever I think about that day I can’t stop me smiling from heart,
It was really a lucky day for a vidhya mandir chhatr.
Bharat mata Ki Jai
